Who doesn’t want to be happy? Who wants to be happy? Who wouldn’t want some peace and harmony in life? I guess there is no one I have met doesn’t want that. Still I meet lots of people who would say..I guess I can never be happy in life. My life is so miserable. I have done everything to be happy but I cannot and many many things like this.
You wanted many things which you thought would make you happy and you are unhappy when you don’t get them and more over, you are still unhappy if you get them why so? Because first thing you did not know at what cost they would come, may be when you get them the circumstances are different or may be now you want something else. So this way you can never be happy? So how can someone be happy in life?
Well the mantra is very simple, the happiness does not depend on a situation or it does not depend on thing. It depends on you. If you decide you are happy, nothing can make you unhappy as it comes from with in. If you decide to be happy, then nothing can erode it from you. You are reason of own miserabilities and then you expect life to be full of peace and harmony. Not possible. You need to change your outlook toward self and accept the life and accept the beauty of life.