Her only child died in an accident. She was grieving for 8-9 years. She had lost desire to live still she knew that she was alive. If she was alive she had a purpose. Her purpose of being on Earth had yet not completed. Her husband asked her to adopt a child and she denied. One day he brought home a one year old girl from an orphanage. The lady did not even look at her as she felt if she would love some other child, it would be a cheating to her dead son. The girl kept coming to her and she kept turning her face. The husband sent her back finally! But something changed after that girl had gone back. The lady started thinking of that girl and asked her husband to take her to the orphanage. She did not adopt that girl but started going there regularly to teach those children, to be with them and love them. She forgot her pain. Kids also responded, would wait for her, when she would reach they would come running, they would hug her, play with her, do small pranks with her and many things. She wanted love of her child and when she gave that love to many other children, it returned to her in many folds. Often we keep waiting for something but we forget that we have to give first and then we would get. What we have, may not reach to same person but there are many more who need what we want to give.
I guess that’s the reason, God did not give everything to anyone. One thing or other is lacking with everyone. Someone does not have health, someone does not have love, someone lacks money. So this system is created so that we can learn to give and receive. We can learn to share what we have and we can learn to take what others have. We need to start giving what we want more. It would be responded many folds. One girl grew up in a very traumatized environment. Her parents used to fight a lot and she had become very aggressive. She learned that people need to be shouted at and suppressed. Why would others accept her this behavior always? She got married in a joint family and she tried controlling everyone. She kept screaming I want peace but she had to give peace to everyone for that. Eventually her husbands brother left home and her mother in law asked her to leave. Her husband told her, I have to be with you as I have no option but because of your this behavior everyone has left you. She still did not realize but one day her 10 years old son said that one day I am going to leave you because you are so bad. That time she started working on herself. She created peace inside her, worked on her anger, started filling up herself with love and then she was able to give peace to everyone. When she was filled up with peace, she could feel peace everywhere else too. She realized her husband actually never triggered a fight!
Give what you want. The cycle starts from you. You are receiving what you are giving. If you are not liking what you are receiving, check what you are giving. You are the starting point of everything in life. You are emitting the vibrations which are attracting similar people and events in life. When your vibrations would change incidences in your life also would change.
