Skirmishes happen in our day to day life. Earlier when I use to see someone getting angry, I use to wonder that what made this person so angry. Then I realized that when something does not happen the way we have desired, we feel angry. I was at my friend’s place, and her father came from another city. He had a driver and he wanted that driver to sleep at home. His wife did not agree for a stranger to stay at home. Her father was furious as he could not make the drive stay at home. Now, did it resolve anything? whenever there is a situation always think what is the other option, what can be done next? Getting angry will only give you negative energy and it may spoil the situation further. Understand one thing, people are free to choose what you say and to accept and you cannot expect them to accept everything. Would you accept, if no, then then expect from others too. Keep your expectations from yourself only, this way you will not feel angry. Generally we play puppet in the hands of our ego. This ego only brings anger and the only solution is to be an observer of the situation. this way you will not be involved in the entire situation and you will be able to see everything objectively. once you become an observer of own life, you would realise that whatever is happening is happening to the body not to you. if someone is saying something, he is saying to the body, not to you. Be aware.
