Parents do 99 things for kids and everything as per they could do for their children but the child would think about what he wanted them to do and they could not do or did not do, whatever may be the reason…the wife does 99 things for her husband but may be she did not do one thing which her husband had expected and may be she is not even aware of that..the husband keeps focusing on that one thing and wife wants recognition for rest of 99 things..the relationship starts falling apart, the husband feels she can never do what he wants and she feels he can never be happy, does not matter how much she does..it could be vice-verse too..the husband does 99 things but still he is accused of not doing that 1 thing which wife expected…most of the relationships start falling apart on trivial issues of expectations ..now understand one thing…whatever you are expecting is your need and your loading the weight of that on someone else…second thing..your expectation is your expectation..and there is no rule book for any relationship..if few things are not done then leave them..look at what is being done..when you do something you also want recognition for that but if its negated, you also would feel bad, same way..the other person also feels bad…so you can start giving what you want..anyway the rule is you get what you give and why should you do with expectation..it is deserved by them..if you want your relationship to be improved..be it any relation…always look at what other person has done and what more you can do…not because the other person expected but because you want to do…
