Few days back, I met a client who wanted to start a business always but always feared that what if he does not succeed, then he would waste his efforts and money. This example looks like it is picked up from everyone’s daily life as most of us want to do something but we fear we might lose what we already have. I understand we have to plan and proceed, you can take calculated risk, but it shall not be so limiting that you stop moving ahead. Failures can happen even in the routine life too, who would guarantee that? Businesses fail, people are laid off and anything can happen. You cannot worry about future as that is never in your hand, what is in your hand is the efforts. If you have a dream go and fulfil it, sitting at home and wishing does not bring it to reality.
We have fear of failure as we are afraid of losing and our ego does not let us accept that we can ever fail in life. The way we are brought up we are conditioned only to think about success not about failure. No one like to fail and that disliking for failure holds you back most of the times from reaching to success as you will always live a mediocre life a calculated one and you will never have freedom to enjoy the true success. How do you know what the true success is if you have not failed. If you fail, so what, you can keep trying and you would be successful. Its no fate..its simple science, mistakes and failures make you a wiser person and next time you would be a better one..you would work harder as you would know whats at stake. Go and experiment with your life and with success..the result will always be better than your expectation just stay honest in whatever you are doing because if you lack honest efforts..you would not reach where you wanted to.
