Life is a saga of ups and downs. We all build our beautiful and not s beautiful memories on the basis of our experiences in the past. Our relationships depend on the experience with the people we have spent time with. Sometimes we like few people as they have been good to us and if they have not been as per our expectations we build a bitter memory of them. However, what happens is we forget the central being that is self here..and we forget that what might would have been the reason..if you start building so much bitter memories and negative judgement inside yourself..then he/she is not getting effected by this..only you being effected by the negativity inside yourself..you are unable to move ahead…you are unable to be happy..you develop resistance against people and world…may be sometimes the circumstances are bad not the people…
Instead of holding on those not so pleasant experiences, you should just retain your lessons, lessons which you learn and makes you a learned person…do not retain the experience, if you retain the experience, you are holding onto the negativity and its hurting you only…so forget the exeperience or else it would hurt you everytime you would think about that..and retain your lessons as it would help you to decide wisely in future..
