We all go through ups and downs in our lives..after every difficult situation which gives us lesson for life and strength for next..we get a period of happiness..and everyone has pain in life..however, haviong pain does not mean we suffer too…but we suffer even when we dont ahve pain..something happened in past we keep suffering..something will happen in future which is a sheer fear of pain..we keep suffering…anyway..the thing is we all go through and experience pain…emotionallya nd physically..I havent met anyone in life who hasnt gone through any pain…now the thing is we all thing we are suffering most…someone says riches dont go through pain ..or may be if someone is smiling, they say what pain he might have gone through…well..let me tell you..if you think like that..then you havent understood the life yet..which happens to anyone..how..no one knows…everyone goes through pain and everyone thinks it is most accute and it is..but it does not mean the pain which other is going through is small.it might be small for you but for taht person it has same intensity..it does not matter how small the situation appears to you…but the intensity might be different for the other one..the intensity at which it is effecting the other person..so never mitigate of disrespect others pain…always remember everyone has pain in life and the intensity is same for everyone….we should be more focussed on spread love and reducing that intensity whereever we can…we all are connected..same consciousness flows through everyone..feeling of love in one person will spread love in your life and feeling of pain in other personw ould spread same pian in your life..so focus on spreading love…