Most of the people who come to me are distressed, the ladies, who blame in laws for her situation in family and not been able to live a life of her dream or some men, whose father did not give them enough support and they could not rise, some who have not been treated, most of them play victim of situation or people around them and keep suffering in life. However, playing victim does not help anything else than your own ego, it is your defense mechanism that I could not do it because of sop and so reason or I am doing this because of so and so reason. If playing victim helps the situation or you, do it, if serving ego helps the things do it, but the truth is it does not help you anywhere, so why are you wasting energy in that, so what does help you, what helps is taking charge of the situation, accepting the responsibility that it is because of your inaction and the situation ends when you decide, once you take the decision accept the 100% responsibility and then enjoy the freedom. If you keep living in cage of protection and safety, you will never be able to enjoy the freedom. But it comes with great responsibility, you cannot blame anyone, you cannot keep serving your ego, the ego would start deflating, now choice is yours. You are creating everything in your life if you accept simple thing in your life, you get all the power of the world because now you are ready to create deliberately, then you would know why something is happening and how it is happening and how you can have the way you desire it.
