A few days back, I heard someone committed suicide in my closed circle. News like that sends us to a state of shock. Then I got a call from someone, who said that I am ready to hang myself and then someone said that I am pulling a trigger today. Sometime back, another one was standing on the top of the mountain to jump. They all came back from that point but what if someone was not there to ask them to return like in the first case?
Times are tough and they may get tougher too. However, with all my experience, with all the learning from my own life and from so many people who have come to me, I know one thing, if we stay strong, if we have the right intention, if we decide not to give up, if we keep doing good karma, everything gets solved. Everyone rises like a Phoenix.
You will rise too. Running away is never a solution. Life will have own way of catching up. Ending your life is never a solution. You will end yours but the people who are attached to you, they will be living in a hell after that.
So what’s the solution? First, think of a solution rather that thinking of a problem. The second thing is, stop taking the pressure of others expectations or what would others say or how the society would react. take charge of your life and take steps accordingly. Does not matter what other’s say, still it is your life and you can take your decisions. Have patience and have faith. faith brings hope. Do not think there is no solution. there is always a solution.
Share with someone, Do not keep holding back things to yourself. Seek help. Do not hesitate in asking for help. Seek as much as help as much as you want. Stop feeling lonely. Give a break to yourself. If you want to go and sit alone, take your time out. You deserve that. Every fire can be fought even after one day. Nothing would change in one day. Everything and everyone can wait. You feel the pressure, which means you are already trying to do good. Trust yourself and trust him. The solution may not appear magically in a moment. But slowly and gradually everything will solve.
Have faith in yourself, have faith in him. You will come out stronger and better. You will rise again. Be there and hold it toghtly.
