At the age of 24, he wakes up at 12, gets ready by two, reaches by 4 and comes back from office at 8, after that he parties with his friend. His finances are taken care of and he has a business to handle, started by his father which is flourishing in every possible way. His father is concerned who worked 16 hours a day to reach where he was.
At the age of 32, she goes to bed at 11, wakes up at 9, and practically, other than going to gym and meeting friends, she has not been doing anything for past 10 years. She did not want to get married as she would lose her freedom and she did not want to work or do a job as why to work for money as her father was paying all the bills.
At the age of 30, she quit her high paying job saying it did not interest her and she did not feel thrilled. She did not take up any job after that saying she was not a job material. She was not interested in getting married saying she wanted to discover herself. But after that for five years her life style is only TV and phone.
I do not know, is it lot of money or is it the value system or is it how the people were raised or is it the lack of purpose. But something is wrong!
Life is very precious. Every minute of life is important. Every minute spent, we cannot get back. We are here to do something not spend life like this. Sometimes, life forces us to be better and do things about it and sometimes, we have to take charge of life. Does not matter what is our age, we need to get up and start doing things. have a clear picture of life where we know what we are doing. We need to give life a purpose.
Just by sitting and complaining and blaming and finding excuses we are not helping ourselves. The biggest one to lose in that is whose life is getting wasted. Do not waste any minute of your life. Use it and feel good about yourself. Find yourself a purpose. If you have nothing then find one. See all what you can do. There might be a struggle, there might be less comfort but yes we would be better.
