We want this world to be as per us and when it is not as per us we feel bad. Same way, if something happiness the way we had desired we feel good and happy in that moment. The time never stops and we mostly dread the moment we are into. Once the moment is gone, then we miss the past time thinking that it was a better time. So the truth is we are always in future or in past. But the truth of this Universe is it is always about now. Every moment is a beautiful moment and brings its own life into it. And that is why when that moment is gone we miss that. We compare and we feel that was a better time. Few days back, one gentleman came to me for counselling, he has big losses in business and after that he went into depression. I asked him what have been his happiest moments and he said none. I asked about him getting married, when he saw his son for the first time and many things like that and for everything he thought of something else which was happening along. He never focused on what was in that moment. He felt every time life had been so unfair to him. I asked him, what he is blessed with now and he said there is nothing left. I made him realize, how much he has now and what if he loses all this too and he was shocked to hear this. We don’t realize the importance of now and we focus on the moments which are gone or we expect them to be there. So look around, its always beautiful, or else you are going to miss this moment very soon.
