We all are whatever we tell ourselves. met a girl who was super confident. So I asked her, her secret. She laughed and said, would you believe that just one year back, I was at the lowest level of confidence. I was going through the worst phase of life. I married a man of my choice. He was a good man, but he always kept telling me, what was wrong with me. I started believing everything he said because I believed him. But then I started doing everything wrong, which further brought me down. I wondered if I could do anything as small as preparing a tea. I would think, so many times, what to add to it, to make a tea. That’s when I realized that there is something wrong. I went to my mom’s place, spent some time alone, started thinking and asked myself, how it all started because I have been a good cook. Then I realized, the problems which my husband found in me, I believed in them, I kept repeating them to myself, and I became the same. Always doing mistakes. He is a nice man but obsessed with correcting and finding faults. I told him that I wanted to stay at my mom’s place for a few months as we needed a break with so many fights. That’s when I sat and wrote my own story. Who I am. What all I can do and I will be able to do, how would I look, what all I would do and I changed the entire story. He told me, I was a pig mouth and I wrote I am beautiful. Now, people come and compliment me for my beauty.
We are still together but I have told him, not to tell me such things. I decide my own story and here I am. I have started my own grooming classes and I help other people in doing the same.
Yes, our mind works on our story. So create a happy, good looking, healthy, abundant story. Do not let others tell you, what you tell to yourself. It shall be your decision. You will see the shift in yourself and in your life after that.
