Someone came to me few days back and said that I have been doing so much for everyone and now when I need people in my time of need I do not find anyone for me. So I asked him 2 questions, why did you do, he said I thought I should be doing and second thing then did you tell them I would expect you to help me when I would need you..he said no…he did because he thought he should be doing not because he wanted to do…we do so many things in life which we feel we should do and we live a life of obligation which burdens us so much. He is going through financial losses but his pain is more about no one being there in his time of need rather than financial losses. Why is it happening….why is he so hurt..because he did something which he did not want to do…we live a life under obligation and we blame life..we keep curbing our small desires..we do not do things which we always want to do and those small things give us more happiness than anything bigger and we think we shall not do these because it is not right…ah..come on…who decides what is right or what is wrong..whatever your heart allows is right and whatever your heart does not allow is wrong…why do you want to live a life tied up with chains..when you would take stock of life..you would realise just because you did not do what you had wanted to do and you did what you did not want to do..you actually have never lived your life…so do you actually want to feel this way about your life…do not do something which you do not want to do..then you would always expect it to be returned..just do what you want to do as it will be for yourself and life would be much simpler and more beautiful….
