We like playing victim whenever we have not been able to do what we had wanted to do…we play victim of family and victim of situation,we dont like to accept our responsibility that whatever is happening in our life is due to our action or inaction, we have to protect our ego or else we would not like ourselves, so we play victim, we blame life in one or other form, this way we feel we did not do anything wrong only the circumstances made us do….we have a deep guilt inside though as whatever happens, we know it what we could do or we should not have done…we keep holding people around us responsible for things happening in our life, to protect our ego, we blame others….however, blames never help anyone…and guilt also never helps anyone..if you have guilt about anything which you have done, then first accept it, then correct it and if you cant correct it then dont repeat the same thing again, oh dont worry, believe me history repeats, you will get a chance to decide again in a similar way, it may appear different but it would be similar….same way dont blame others, for whatever is happening in your life….or has happened…be it your spouse, parents, world anyone…take 100% responsibility of your life because then only you are empowered to change the things, if you blame others, you give them the power of your life, however, if you take the charge, you have the power too….let them be free…stop being victim and be free yourself too and let others be free…if you want to live a free life..stop being your own victim….
