One of my old buddies called up. He said that since the time his mother died he has only been going down. He found out about how his father treated his mother and his father had an affair also, which actually killed his mother emotionally. So now, when his parents were not alive, he could not do any thing about that. But he was unable to come out of that. Because of which his relationship with his wife was also suffering and his business was also getting affected. It will be! If he was in constant distress. He was blaming everyone in his life for his situation.
I asked him whose fault was it and he counted many names. Ok, so it’s not your fault. It’s their fault . So what?
Let’s say they are here to accept their faults, now what shall we do?
Whose life is getting affected in all this? So who will have to take action? Go and get ready and do something about it. If you need professional help, hire one. If you want to talk to a friend hire one. You want to write and burn it, do it. You want to take a holiday, take one.You want to curse and take it out, do it. But for God’s sake, do not stand into it. Move on!. Few years back, we were in a workshop. We were supposed to walk on a fire bed of coals. So we were told, do not stand, do not run. Just walk. This is my learning. Do not stand, do not run. It will burn you alive. Just keep walking and you will be fine.
So be it any problem, keep walking. Move on. Do not sit there. It’s your life. Do not let it burn. Whether it’s your fault or someone else’s fault. Keep moving. Keep your spirits high! Be happy! Live it. Bad things happen to everyone. That’s how we grow up!
