Few days back, one counselling case came to me, where a person has gone into deep depression as he has lost his business. For last many months he does not talk to anyone. He has started responding now and is coming back to normal life. I was appointed by his wife’s brother for his counselling. He only would handle all the charges etc. Now when he has started responding, instead of focusing on his improving health, she is trying to manipulate her brother, so that he invests in their business. When I realized this, I felt really bad for her because she is still unable to see, how blessed she is and how caring her brother is. she is still looking at whats not there and trying to manipulate things. May be they are going through all this because of their attitude and these are the lessons they are suppose to learn? In my last session with this gentleman, I taught him to focus on love as that is the most important thing. We have a very bad habit or this is how we are grown up, we look at what we want and is not there, which is ok, as far as we remember what is already being done for us. However, we just look at what is not there and we want and we take rest everything for granted. However, have you ever thought, how your life would be if any of these things will not be there. A person fell sick and when he was on medication, he developed some type of weakness. I told him, he should be thankful for his health and a fit body and he did not agree. I asked him, what if he becomes immobile, what for his basic things he would have to depend on others and he was shocked. Sometimes, to see what you have, think once, what if this all would not be there. So be thankful for all your blessings before even thinking of asking for something else. We all are eternally blessed and loved.
