He wanted to have a good relationship. For five years he did not care about it. HE came home late, never cared about her emotional concerns, never cared to spend time with her and whenever she tried talking, he snapped at her. One day, she decided to leave. She did not want to be in a marriage in which she was only serving and had no right to talk. He realized his mistake at that time and wanted her to stay. But she could never trust him and finally left.
His father handed over a successful business which was earning more than he needed. His ways were not right. When his father was there, he was always casual about everything. He never realised that the business was doing good because his father was sitting over there. He came late to the office, left early with the friends, relied on his employees more than he should. Few loyal and honest ones tried warning him but he shut them up. How long could they manage. The business crumbled and he realized his mistake when he had no money to withdraw.
On the other hand:
One woman, she always wanted to have a peaceful, happy and loving relationship. She always handled everything very peacefully. Her husband asked her so many times, that from where do you get so much of patience and she always replied because I want this relationship forever. They grew old together with so much love. She trained her children on the same thing. If you want to have a relationship with someone, work on it that it is forever. It is like our home. When we buy a home, we maintain it properly, we do not leave it
Now a simple question, if you want to eat apples after few years, when do you grow the tree? Now or after few years? Now! So that when you need it, it’s ready. We always say that we dig the well now, not when we are thirsty. We need to do the right things right now, so that we can have right future.
Think of what kind of future you want to have and then do the right things now.
