In our house, we find a corner to dump the waste and then everything whatever is not required becomes a part of that. Similarly, for city also, there is a point where the waste of whole city is dumped. Whatever that place is, the dump keeps increasing. We want that space, we want to use it, but we do not want to be in it as it is stinking with our waste. We want to stay at the clean place. We do not want to do anything good with that dump yard.
If I look at it from Law of Attraction perspective, like attracts like. So if you have dumped emotions in your heart, everyone would come and dump their emotions in you. You would be feeling bad, you would be feeling being used but this is how things would be. Even your own emotions would keep piling up. You may feel sad or depressed but the truth is you would become a dumpyard of emotions because you have created a space there.
So what shall we do?
First of all, learn to value your emotions. Do not ignore them. And also do not judge them. Because when we judge we tend to suppress also many a times. Like we are told, we should be happy, we should not be sad, we should not get angry and when we get not so desired emotions, we try to ignore them and they get stored somewhere. Now, on that it just starts a new space inside body and it will attract further emotions from that point and it would pile on. So whenever there is an emotion, pay attention to them, solve them, ask yourself, what should be the ideal thing, how to express it, solve it and release it. Let the space be clean for love and better things.
Hearing out someone is not dumping but the problem is if you have a dumpyard there, matching emotions to one of yours will get magnetically attracted and get stored there. So keep yourself light and clean.
