He got married and got divorced after three years. He had gone through many bad experiences during that time. He felt that his parents were tortured. He felt that he was tortured. So he blamed all that on his ex wife. Or in other words his mind picked up the word wife. So after 5 years when he got married again, he was so cautious. So, he started torturing his new wife. He was kind of taking revenge. That girl tried her level best and then kind of finally they ended again. After that he was never able to love any other girl. When his parents asked, he simply said that girls do such things. He attached the bad experiences to any girl but in reality he tortured himself that way.
On the other hand met another gentleman, his ex wife also had thrown few punches. He also felt tortured. However, he attached those things to times and learnings of life. Infact he wanted to get married again sooner than we all could think of and he wanted to love the new girl more and more. He always said that, I have seen bad side of life and now, I am ready for the good side. After 5 years of marriage, when I saw them as a couple, I felt who could be more blessed. They were both so much in love. They were holding hands again and again and smiling at each other. Not to mention, one cute little naughty boy was running around.
Life brings us all. Good, bad, hardships, loveships and everything. It depends on us, what we choose. What we choose now, will affect our choice and choices laid in front of us in future. It is like the it’s a path we choose and then what comes on the path depends on the path we have chosen. So choose with love.
