We all deserve what we desire..we all deserve what we want and we all should get what we want..then what stops us…self…we deserve a lot we feel and then we settle for less…we start compromising with the self and with the nature and build a justification for accepting less…we blame situation..we blame people…we blame God. However, we forget that the most imp person in our life is self and we are the reason in our life…whatever excuse we give that is to justify the fragile ego and to keep the self image intact.
I am not asking to accept the blame, its about accepting the responsibility…you wanted to work for the best company..could net get there..you took up another job…and think its fine..everyone does not get there..who stopped you from upgrading your skills, knowledge and trying again? One girl came to me one day and said, guys come into her life and they disappear after few days…and she wants real love…she built a pretty bad picture about this world but I asked her one thing, that why did she let them come if she felt they did not deserve her? She herself felt vulnerable and let them come into her life…
If you keep accepting what is offered…you will always be deprived of what you deserve..I am not asking you to start blaming life and situation..life is the most beautiful thing that has happened…however, do not settle for less than what you desire..put your sincere efforts…do not forget journey is more important than the destination itself and once you are sincere..you will set up many mile stones..