Close your eyes and think of someone and very rarely you see yourself. You see that someone has said something to you or someone was doing something or girls may think what other girl was wearing. Even if you see someone doing something with you or saying something to you, you think of other person not self. Now let’s take another example, you saw yourself in the mirror in the morning and recollect what did you see? You saw how you were looking, so you checked your hair, your dress or may be some make up if a girl is doing that. Did you actually see yourself? Did you see how your eyes sparkled? Even when you were looking at self, you forgot to look at self. When you think, you think of someone else, when you see, you do not see self. Definitely, when you see someone else, you are good to see everything, how that person was looking, how his eyes sparkled, if the dress was flawless or the shirt was coming out etc.
We leave it on others to see us and more we do that more we go away from self. We want to have lots of knowledge and we want to explore so much in life however, we forget to find the one with whom we are living constantly. We ignore the very person who is in quest. You forget who you are, you never bother why you are here, what do you want and why do you want, you just enter into a herd and start moving in that. You forget that you are not a sheep to move into the herd, you are here with a purpose. So start looking at self. I am accused of being self centred so many times, journey to the self is not being self centred, when you start connecting with the self, you would really know and understand this creation and then you will connect with everyone else too. You would be able to love everyone more as every one is a part of you. Without understanding self, you would never understand anything around you. You cannot go deeper than self or higher than self. Dive to self is the deepest and hiking to self is the highest. You will find everything on the way.
