Whenever I see two people arguing or someone doing something which he shall not be doing I always wonder if they realize they are lessoning love from this world. Most of the times our every action is reaction to something else and we keep losing ourselves in that reaction. We forget what actually we would have thought or done in that situation as we are busy reacting. However, if before every argument if we just think that would it add or lesson probably we would not indulge in any such argument and most of the problems in relationships, between friends, between brothers and between everyone else also would resolve. Few days back, I came across a very interesting domestic issue. My client who is newly married is unable to adjust with her mother in law and two sisters in law. She said that they pick on her a lot and to teach them a lesson she hid their money for few days. After troubling them enough she returned the money but now everyone is against her and her Mother in law infact talked about divorce too. I asked her, when she wanted to teach a lesson did she think if it would add to the love in the family or would lessen or has it added or has it lessened and of course it has lessened as the rift between the two has increased and she also does not like the fact that her Mother in law talked about divorce which means it added sourness on both sides. I asked her what did she want a divorce or to live with the family and she chose later. In that case the only possible way is to add to the love and that can happen only if you decide to choose to add love.
Whenever you have any doubt while deciding or taking any decision just take a two minutes break and think if it will add to the love or lessen the love. A decision taken to add the love can never go wrong and it would fill your life with love. Once your life is full of love there is no question of feeling lonely.
