We generally complain/crib in front of people who cannot do anything about it. We dont go and dare to speak to person who actually can change the things. Result, things stay where they are, we get into behavior of whining, and bitching. We complain that i am bearing things silently, but the truth is you are channelising it in the wrong direction and venting out at wrong place. Try to either change or stop cribbing. Go and tell the person what problems you have. I am not asking to fight, I am asking to discuss like adults. Just dont assume that discussing wont help.
