Few days back a gentleman came in and discussed his problem. He said that he meets strange customers and people. They are confused, want to extract more, always come with lots of questions, manipulate and many things. Infact so many times he was being manipulated even by his own family members. He asked to help him in sorting out his life.
Now here was the situation of his mind:
1. he believed that customers are always bad (He had been a bad customer to many).
2. he felt they wanted to extract more by paying less and he was doing same for his suppliers in business.
3. He always was trying to manipulate more and get more information about people so that he could use them for his personal benefit
4. He was always full of questions in mind like what if someone does this, what if someone does not do that etc.
You ask the question and you get the answer! So he asked many what if questions and life was replying back. He was manipulating people, people manipulated him. He started focusing on honest customers and then he started getting honest customers.
When he started correcting his thought process his life started getting corrected too. However, it took him some 6-7 months to start seeing the results.
So what shall we do:
Have a clear desire
Have a clear intention
Do not have an intention of harming anyone
Have a positive metaphor to follow in mind
Have a positive motivation (Do not be motivated by fears or insecurities)
Take focused steps
Have a happy life!
