We all face different kinds of situations in life..some make us feel good and some make us feel not so good or may make us feel bad too. Sometimes we feel bad about certain things and helpless that we are unable to control them. Now have a fresh perspective on the situation this way…who created this situation? The situation or the circumstances are created by many….every one contributes to one circumstances…even if you take market factors in economic terms…one product is affected by many factors…and you have no say in what others are contributing in that situation..that’s why you are unable to control..as you cannot control others..what you can control is how you react to it..how you accept the circumstances..how you reject them..do you decide to stay calm..do you decide to give up..do you decide to stay in control…do you decide to be happy in adverse situations…all these reactions are generated by you.
If you decide to be tense in a tense situation, it is your prerogative, if you decide to give up in certain problems it is your choice. For example, you face a difficult situation and you give up, you lose your fighting spirit, it is your decision, later on you regret over the thing, that is also your reaction. Similarly, you decide to fight and win…you are happy about your decision..later on..so that is also your decision to have reacted this way…
No one can control circumstances but its your choice if you let yourself to be controlled by them. If you let them do it..you lose…but if you don’t let them rule you..you win…its your decision..your choice…
