We all get a package in life, so many things we like and so many things we dont. Generally, as we grow old, tally of the things which we do not like grows, which we like comes down. We wish to change many things in life. We wish to change many things in the world too. However, we forget that whatever is happening in the life is because of us and if we wish to change life we need to change self. First of all, we need to change the outlook. If we accepted pleasant moments we shd embrace difficult moments also with equal pleasure. If we are able to do that,w e would always be happy and contended.
Second thing is stop blaming people and things around you. Take the charge of your life and accept the responsibility. If you are able to do that then only you can fix things, other wise you will always keep blaming and you will never fix the real thing.
You need to clear the clutter. Tell me one thing, when you cook fresh in the morning, do you use stale veggies or left overs from the last day? I guess no,infact you would clean the kitchen first and then start afresh, this is what I have seen my mom also doing every morning. Same way, when you want to start afresh, you need to clean your body kitchen, where everything pertaining to your life is cooked.
So if you want to change your life, change yourself first.