After having a successful business for 10 years a gentleman kept incurring losses for years. Harder he tried worse it got. He did not know what to do. He tried many things, many ideas but nothing worked for him. Then his friend told him that earlier work used to be fun for you and you used to enjoy, now you always look so burdened. It kind of got stuck with him and he started doing things like it is fun rather than an imposed responsibility. His business turned around in no time. When he changed his attitude towards business it changed too.
One lady was having many problems with her friends, in laws, own family. Earlier she kept blaming her family but when she lost her latest friends she realized that there has to be something wrong with her. She started working on herself and it helped. Gradually she could create better, loving and harmonious relationships.
One gentleman was having problem with many colleagues. He said that I feel everyone gets into competition with me. Though I am a star performer but no one wants to work with me. But on his self analysis spree, he realized that he was always trying to prove himself better than others. When he solved that, this problem also solved.
Our life is our creation. We do not realize it. We forget it or we may not know it. But whatever is happening around us is a direct reflection of whatever is happening inside us. We need to change what’s inside to change what’s outside.
If you want people should be happy to see you then first you should be happy to see them. If you want your business to love you, love your business. If you want your workers to love you, love your workers. Do not treat them like objects. If you want to have happy relationships, be happy to have those relationships.
Change yourself and your life would change
Be love.
