One person came to me, who is having lots of problems in his life including relationship problems too. He was tired of those relationship problems. He was crying that he had so much of pain in his life. I asked him to observe everything in his own life for few days. He met me after one week, and accepted that though they are his pain areas but he never focused on improving relations. he was always just going with the flow and complaining. He never thought of doing something, so as to add more love in his relations. This was a moment I was waiting for. i can explain to him 100 things, but if he does not realize anything, everything would fail. The moment he realized, he started making the change as he had decided to change. Within 2 months, he could see things changing in his life, there was more love, peace and harmony. he was able to add so much love in his life. The problem is we never decide to change and until we decide we are not focused on that and we want things to happen on their own. It is fine, they can happen also, but we will not even realise until we have that focus. Until you are focused, you will never be able to See the change around you, like you don’t realize when your kids are finally grown ups and you still treat them as small. So if you want something to change in your life, decide and change, it wont happen until then.
