One who was married for 20 years did not like her husband. She always said, he makes my life so difficult. On the contrary, one who was a divorcee (was married only for one year) said that at least someone has a husband to shout at her.
Another gentleman who wanted to get married but could not as his father had died early and he had many responsibilities to fulfil. So once jokingly I said that so you would get married and all that bickering would start, like when are you coming back, where were you, why are you not spending time with me, fight over remote etc. He started laughing and said that I want someone to do all that. It’s a blessing that someone is there to do all the bickering.
His parents had died early and he grew up with his grand parents. He always cried and said that I wish there were parents to shout at me, to stop me, to push me for studies.
She had four children and she was tired of the mess they were creating
What we see as a tension, what we see as a problem is the blessing of life. Life is about all this. Do not miss out on this. Do not feel bad about it. It’s there and it will be there. Feel good about it and feel happy about it. feel alive about it.
Celebrate life. It is precious. It will not be there forever so celebrate it more. Have ocassions to celebrate. If you do not have, then just celebrate.
It’s beautiful. it’s great even with all it’s problems. Value it, live it, cherish it!
