One small child came and asked me how can I be different, what can I give to the world which no one has ever given? It made me smile and the answer is you are different. By being you, you can give what no one has ever given to the world. I asked him how come you have reached to this question at such a tender age? He said that my mother asked me to be like someone and I really do not like him. So I decided that I want to be different and then why should I be like someone else. I am sure, that child will be doing many amazing things in the future.
But it is applicable to all of us. We all grow up lots of things which we would want to do in life and somehow, we reach to a point where we want to have many things. We forget the real purpose of being here. It is being who we are. Universe has create each one with lots of love and there is a purpose with which we all design. Now, when we are not who we are, we are failing that purpose. It is like in a big puzzle, every piece small of big is equally important to make it complete and without any piece it cannot be completed. Also every piece is uniquely designed and has own place. We all have that unique design and we all here to fulfill that purpose. But the big question is how?
1. Stop comparing
2. Do not try to be like someone else
3. Ask yourself what do you want to be
4. Why do you want to be that
5. Is it making you feel happy, fulfilled
6. When you start following that, are you happy
7. Is it opening many more doors for you (When you are doing what you are here to do, challenges do come but help also start coming in, Universe opens its gateways)
8. When you see yourself like you have accomplished that, how do you feel?
9. It should make you feel like you have served your purpose
10. While doing that, do you feel that if you die today also, you would have no regrets
Answer the questions very honestly. Worry, if you are not being who you are rather than worrying about, what if my life is not like (in comparison with someone). Do not worry about death, worry about not being you. Serve well, live well.
