Someone else’s suffering can never give you happiness.

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One gentleman was in huge depression. His brother cheated him in business and he had spent 10 years of his life taking revenge and destroying his brother back. He confessed that he felt, he would feel very happy by doing so and he would attain peace. So my next question was, did he? He started crying and said that initially, …

Take a decision to think positive and be happy.

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It was 18 years back. I was working with a gentleman who was an American. It was a very transformative experience. He had become my very good friend. So I could share my expert comments with him freely. I was being judgemental instead of being compassionate for everyone and I always had a better idea. But he started questioning my …

Your focus decides your creation.

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One lady called up. She shared that she was having lots of problems with her husband. As per her, she had a very interfering mother in law. Not a very uncommon situation. So I asked her what was she thinking the whole day and she counted all the domestic chores as well as how she was always avoiding her mother …

You can never be happy at the expense of others happiness.

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One gentleman asked how it is important to be happy? And yes it is very important. Whatever we do, we do it to feel happy. We buy bigger homes, bigger cars because we feel we would be happy in that. We go to expensive restaurants because we feel happy when we spend time there. Otherwise, a single man needs only …

Increase love, do not fight the darkness.

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One lady contacted, she was going through the low self-esteem issues. When I asked her the reasons, gradually she started sharing that because of it, she was having relationship problems too. Then she shared that after she got married, her husband started pointing out lots of mistakes in her. For everything, he would criticize her and tell her, how badly …

Always be your bestself.

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One gentleman who was lazy, who used to make fun of people, was always very demanding of everyone one day realized that people avoid him. Who so ever becomes his friend, pushes away after some time. No one wanted him to be around in the office. So when he realized and accepted that it is something wrong with him which …

More you receive, more you shall give.

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Giving is equally important as much as receiving. There are many stories of giving and sharing which have been told in ancient scriptures. Be it any religion, giving as been emphasised every time, everywhere. Nature is giving, we have to give to for survival. It is like if there is a tree full of fruits and it does not share …

Instead of acting honest, be honest in your intentions.

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He helped people but wanted an upper hand over them. So every time, he helped, he got a showdown. She always said, she worked very honestly but she always tried cutting corners here and there. The result was, she always faced losses where ever she paid. She thought that she could take more from the company by declaring more expenses. …