He had an ok relationship with his wife. Why ok? Because they cared for each other but they both always broke into fights. They had many disagreements that way. And every disagreement lead to a new fight. Every fight left some residue and then every time they were fighting over many past issues. So what did he do? He simply …
Marriages just don’t happen on their own. They have to be created with right intentions, love and patience.
One boy who is getting married soon came to meet. He was getting last minute jitters. He was nervous and getting depressed. He heard lots of things from his friends and saw his parents fights and many things. he felt all the worst was coming to him. He would lose his freedom, he would struggle between his mother and wife, …
Today, think what will matter after ten years and keep that. Rest all, let it go.
My friend invited me to help clean her house. Her mother had passed away and she needed help. I wondered, why she needed this as she was not shifting or something. But when we started, I realized why she needed help. There were so many things and after that clean up, I started feeling scared of stacking anything for future …
Your self respect does not depend on how much others respect you. It depends on how you feel about yourself.
One lady went into depression. She said that when she got married, her husband’s family did not treat her right. She had to kill hers elf respect to live peacefully. She felt that she lost her self respect. In another scenario, one gentleman went through divorce and was accused of many false things in the court. His wife wanted more …
Be aware of your own presence. Be aware of own emotions.
One gentleman who was very short tempered asked, how could he control his anger. He shared that he would get angry on everything. Earlier he felt he was justified but as he would get angry on things which people are doing wrong but gradually he realized it was pushing people away from him. So I asked him, why he gets …
Our relationships will improve the day we will start understanding others pain.
A lady came with all the relationship problems she felt she had. She lived with her in laws for the initial years of marriage and then they got separated and started living with herb husband. Her husband always tried bridging the gap between himself and her as their relationship suffered because of those initial years. (Not very uncommon). Sometimes the …
People are reacting to the energy which your thoughts are creating.
When he came here, he shared that he was frustrated in life. HE always feels that no one seem to notice him. he lacked attention. Because of that, does not matter, how hard he worked he never got what he deserved. And since when you have been believing this? Since forever as a child too. He felt that his brother …
Enlightenment is not about anything else, it is about seeing your own light.
En- is a prefix which mean within. So enlighten means light with in. Someone wanted to know what is enlightenment and how can he be enlightened? All I could say way see the light within. We all are beings of light. God made us in his own reflection! Wait! Is it his reflection or is it God descended himself in …
Love is about being together in hearts.
Someone asked me, what is love in a relationship. Is it when you look at each other, you can see in eyes, is it caring for each other and each other’s emotions, is it holding hands, is it appreciating each other, is it thinking good of each other, is it about understanding each other etc? All these things reflect love! …
In a relationship, we do not pick some qualities. We choose the person as a whole.
Indian mythology has a famous legend. Draupdi was married to five brothers. Her legend goes back to her past life. She spent a life of austerity to please God to get a good husband in next life. So when God appeared she asked for five qualities in her husband. Like best arrow man, best judge and who speaks truth, one …
The one who is inside you is inside everyone else too. Where is the duality? It’s ego!
One gentleman said that he wanted to work on himself. Though he was feeling happy the way he was. While talking about himself, he also shared that how he had wronged people and what all bad he had done. I did not say anything, after all he was happy! But then he kept asking how can I improve myself! So …
Always desire best for others, even for the people who have wronged you.
Few days back, a gentleman came over. He was in extreme guilt and that guilt was killing him. I asked him why? He shared that his brother’s wife had wronged him. She manipulated his brother and got them separated. She made his brother launder money in business too. Because of this they had to close down the running business finally. …










