Luxury and Necessity

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For few days I did not have my laptop and I missed it. I am so use to writing on my laptop, connecting with friends through it, when I wake up and come n sit here, when I go to sleep I shut it down..whenever I have time I am doing one thing or other on laptop. Few years back …

God Fearing

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So many times, while explaining about someone’s character I have heard especially in India that he/she is a God Fearing person. So what does it mean, you are doing good because you have fear of God or you can say you are afraid that tomorrow you will be punished for your wrong deeds. Now let’s assume, there is no God …

Feelings

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WE all have feelings, some are negative and some are positive and some are somewhere neutral and we are the only one who are responsible for own feelings. Once a scorpion was drowning in the sea along with waves and one saint saw him. He pulled it out and it stung him back, out of pain, the saint flung him …

Loving the self

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So many times people come to me with a complain, though they do not voice it out openly, but the thing is we all want to be loved and when we feel we are not loved the way we are expected and we feel bad. Now, the person cannot go and tell the other person that you need to love …

Learning English

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Big question, big desire by many many especially in India. So many schools have opened on the road side, claiming to teach you to speak in English in one month and so on. So many people come to me saying please develop my personality, I do not know how to even speak in English. People have associated English with status …

Advent of Love

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Love….some sage said it is the most beautiful emotion which anyone can feel. It is inexplicable, ineffable, you know what is love only when you are in love. A mother only know, how does she feel for her baby not even the baby knows, because the mother is in love with the baby. She can’t eat food properly if she …

Status

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What is status? Merriam Webster has few definition of status : a : position or rank in relation to others b : relative rank in a hierarchy of prestige; especially : high prestige2: the condition of a person or thing in the eyes of the law3: state or condition with respect to circumstances Today’s view point is about the first …

Festivities

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When ever there is a festival, there is always a mythological significance behind it. However, what I have realised is these festivals were designed by smart people with some other significance. They had a purpose so that people can take a break from daily monotonous life and can realise that there are other things also which have importance in life …

When the kids grow up

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This is in context with India particularly. Parents always think they are the parents and they have the right to control their kids life. More you impose more you want to let free. However, parents have to respect the fact that when kids grow up they become adult they are not kids any more and you cannot impose on them …

Self Belief

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Lots of time people come to me and they say, they are so confident about themselves and they do not give a damn to others. After sometime they ask me, tell me how do I look, rate me on my looks and when i reply that it does not matter how you look, what matters is what you are and …

Stop cribbing

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We like this but we want things to change for us..it would be better if its slightly more, we don’t like something and we dont want it to exist however, what we need o change is the outlook not the things…everything is already perfect and even you are perfect. You become perfect when you want to become perfect as we …

I am stuck

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So many time we are stuck in a situation where we are unable to decide for self and may be somewhere we want that things should just happen because we are unable to take the onus of the decision. We just cant think independently, because we are afraid to fail and that is also the reason that we are unable …