We all want best of the worlds for us and we don’t get. We feel depressed, sad and we feel we don’t deserve that. When we look at someone else who has that, we feel he/she is more deservant than me that’s why he got it. However, the truth is different, everyone is equally deservant to to get whatever you …
You cannot control what others think…
For last few days, some one is very upset about one thing that why do I write such blogs or make such postings on FB. Am I grown up enough to teach people? This is his first question. Well…I never started writing something assuming that I am teaching someone something. I write whatever is in my mind that day and …
Exercising Self Dicipline
We need to be in discipline to live a fulfilling life and if someone is not in discipline..its like lose strings hanging everywhere. It is so important that we are taught to live under discipline since the time we gain our conscious. That’s why we have schools, whatever we are taught there at small scale has a relevance in life …
Everything in life cannot be available at your convenience
We always build a comfort zone around us, this comfort zone includes the work, the people, the life we live in. Mentally and physically we are very adjusted to that. We are so comfortable in that life that we do not want any change. If there is a change in life or anything new, we try to adjust that in …
The most important person
Our parents would die before us, spouse comes later, children come later and we die before them. We spend half life with previous generation and half life with next generation. We are taught to think of everyone else before us. We are taught to serve everyone else before us. We do not want that, we want to think about self …
Truth is freedom
Lets start counting from the time we gained our conscience. We are taught Do not lie. We are taught this in school, we are taught this by parents and everyone who feels who has a right to teach us soemthing in life. Still as we grow we start picking up this option. I would not call it as a habit, …
Lack of self trust
You do not like when someone is talking about you especially in a negative manner, you want that you should get lots of attention, you want that people should believe you and for that you are ready to demean others too. Whoa….why is all this required? Why do you have to go and tell people “Trust me”? Why do you …
Need for unconditional love
So many times I stress on this thing that we are born to be loved and to spread love and any deviation from that takes us away from self only. And it would be true for anytime or any generation that whenever we are going away from self, we do not like it and we start losing life. We miss …
Eating the bread and cleaning the leftovers.
Some sage said once that no one would have worked in this world, if humans would not have got a stomach. Everything else comes later. Whatever you want to achieve or reach to, it would fail when you are not well fed. You cannot even focus on God if you are hungry. So much to eat and satiate. However, whenever …
Lessons from life…
2 days back someone called me up early in the morning and said that he is the editor from some newspaper. He said that I appear to be young and do I think I have learned enough to teach others. I just wanna know one thing, first, what age has to do with learning and second thing, when does the …
Being your best…
Seems like we are running since the time we are born. Always in a rat race..want ourselves to prove better than others. In school, we want to stand at first position because we want to be better than rest. At work, we care more about the colleagues around and want to be better than them. We want to be first …
The ordeal ends now…
So many times, people come to me and complain about the situation and the agony they are going through. Someone complains about wife, someone about kids, someone complains about business partner and someone complains about what they could not do and wanted to do. After they finish explaining me what they are going through, I ask them one question, what …