Don’t do something which you do not want to do.

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Someone came to me few days back and said that I have been doing so much for everyone and now when I need people in my time of need I do not find anyone for me. So I asked him 2 questions, why did you do, he said I thought I should be doing and second thing then did you …

There is always a new beginning before an ending.

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We are so use to of living the way we are already living that we abhor any kind of change. A small baby also when gets comfortable in someone’s arms would not like to change the arms and would stay with same person. He/she does not know that new arms may be more comfortable. We are so comfortable in our …

The only pathway to God is of love….

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Yesterday someone called me up and asked if I am a Muslim and when I reasoned her on same question, she said you look like one and which makes me wonder. Muslim, Hind, catholic etc….or after that……do I look like one Vaishya or Punjabi…..I thought humans emerged from God and we all are a part of God and then from …

Everyone is a part of you and you are a part of everyone.

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WE all emerged from same identity, even if we do not take it as God as everything is God then, still we all are one. WE all have a part of each other. Everyone is a part of Universe and is holding Universe within himself or herself. When Yashoda asked child Krishna to open his mouth she passed out because …

Do not impose your needs as the demand of relationship.

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So many times I meet people who have distressed relationship. Who have some differences with their husbands or wives. They fight over trivial issues and sometimes they are so trivial that makes me wonder if that should be the issue to end any relationship. Once I had a client who was complaining about his wife and said that she cant …

Your first responsibility and commitment is toward yourself.

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I want to help people and I want to keep everyone happy. Very nice intentions and very noble one. However, what do we do, in or noble intentions, we forget the most important person in or life and we remain deprived of love and acceptance. We keep looking up to others to verify ourselves. We want others approval to take …

You feel beyond words because you came before them.

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Most of the times we want that the person in front of us should understand s without saying anything. Once I had a client who said Sheetal I want to build a bond with you, that you are able to understand me without me saying anything. That is not very fair to anyone because everyone has own frame of reference …

Everything exists and nothing exists.

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My family, my parents, my wife..my son..my home..my company….he says this to me…I want to goto America and can’t be satisfied until I go there….I have earned this..oh…my hand pains..I have so many problems in life..oh I am so happy…so many things…I want to goto temple to be with god or to establish self connection and so many things we …

Everything and every reality is NOW.

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Most of the people I meet who are in pain are actually not in pain, they are just suffering from pain. They are suffering because either they are living in past pain or future expected pain. Since the time we are born we start going through pain. The birth itself is a process of pain for both mother and the …

Everything is nothing but God.

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I see people going to temple or any place of worship to meet God and I go too. I am not an atheist. I do believe in God however, I do believe in one more things, for any place to become God, it already has to be God. You put a sticker on a wall or on a table and …

Everything is nothing but God.

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I see people going to temple or any place of worship to meet God and I go too. I am not an athiest. I do believe in God however, I do believe in one more thing, for any place to become God, it already has to be God. Yo pt a sticker on a wall or on a table and …