We all go through lots of phases in life and we feel my life is so difficult. Now the big question is, how would you improve if you do not face challenges? How would you innovate if the things keep running smooth? How would you know the tremendous potential hidden inside you if you do not get a chance to …
Life is all about having different experiences.
A child is born like a blank slate…as soon as he opened his eyes, he starts gaining experiences. His first experience is of pain and happiness while coming out of his mother’s womb and then he finds many strangers smiling and soon he becomes something of everyone. A soul which was related only to the mother now is related to …
Sometimes we forget that people ae more important than the things.
We start hoarding. We want what others have and we don’t want others to have what we have. We get into a competition and we don’t know with whom. Without realising with whom we are competing and we just want everything. As our horizon expands, our needs and desires also expand. We think our needs are expanding but if we …
You are much bigger than the things you limit yourself to.
Humans were born as Nomads. They use to wonder here and there in search of food and then they started making homes and human civilization started evolving. The purpose of making home was just to find the shelter but along came greed and along came insecurities. Instead of depending on our true identity we started depending on the things we …
If you can’t love his people you can’t love God too.
I have been saying this again and again that it’s all one consciousness, but when we do not love people, we love our ego have we ever thought where is God in all this? He is in the smiles of kids you would see around, he is in the fragrance of flowers which is spreading everywhere, he is in the …
You just have to be yourself and let others be their realself too.
I do not like comparisons. Sometimes people would come and tell me that you are really good but you must watch him/her and see him speak and learn more techniques of speaking. Even if I am suppose to improve, why I should copy someone else, let it come naturally…why can’t I just be me..everyone is unique and is given own …
A person of insecurities will always find faults in others.
Generally whatever we have inside us, we same things in others. A thief thinks everyone else is also a thief, a person who lies thinks everyone else is a liar too and a person who is innocent will trust everyone else and thinks that everyone is an innocent person. We can see only what we have inside. A person who …
Find your own path so that you know where you are going.
We all want to grow in life..and as we grow we learn..we depend on others for few things..why..because we feel that they can do it for us..but always ask your self that why someone would help you…if they have their stake they would and you might get into a direction which is unknown to you..you may wander like a lost …
Only way to conttrol ego is to be aware of ego.
As soon as we are born, we start getting ego. we are taught to survive on ego and ego thrives on us. It becomes superior than everything else. We all grow up with a mental conditioning of ego. This belongs to me, this is m house and i should be safe. if we do mistake, we are unable to accept …
Comparing two people is like judging fish for how high she can fly.
Stop Comparing “Comparison leads to ego & acceptance leads to enlightenment.” Very few people we meet are contented within themselves. Who do not compare themselves with anyone else. Once I was counselling in a restaurant and in the middle of the session the client got little defocused from what I was saying. He became more busy watching the other man …
Your cycle of Karma is incomplete, untill you learn your lesson.
Few days back, one gentleman came to me for counselling who is on the verge of filing for divorce. He thought, there cannot be any solution to his situation as his wife does not want to resolve the situation. He said he has decided to file for the divorce and he has come to me, so that I can help …
Love does not demand anything. It knows no fear, no reward. Its unconditional.
You have changed so much after getting married. You do not love me any more. I do not feel same love for you now. The father says to his son, now when you have grown up and you are not as per my expectations, I cannot love you the way I had thought I would love you. Our feelings and …