What is the blue print of your life?

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Before we construct any building, we prepare a map or a blue print of same. Can we imagine constructing a building without a Blue Print in hand? If we try to, the building will have no shape. Somewhere, there would be shortage of space and somewhere there would be wastage. The building would look like a child’s work where some …

What are we scared of? A child knows no fear.

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One couple brought their 24 year old son to me. They told me that he is scared of everything and they want him to take his stand as he is old enough now. He was scared of buying a shirt, going for ice cream with his friends and then everything else too. I asked them if he was born like …

Ego is the cause of our sufferings.

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Everyone goes through pain in life but most of the people do not like releasing that pain. They keep suffering from that pain because they start gaining strength out of that pain. Seems awkward not true isnt it? Lets look at it from other perspective that why we dont like releasing our pain. One person is going through pain of …

Don’t live your life just because you are born.

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Yesterday i was sitting with a 57 years old gentleman. He is worried about his son’s divorce. I asked him why he wnats them to be together when they dont want to be together and he did not have any reason. Next question popped up, you got married, you ahve children and now your children also have children. You are …

A compassionate heart is the true loving heart.

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There could be many definitions of compassion but for me its simple. Everyone is a part of me and their pain is my pain. I cant see myself in pain and I would do anything to elevate myself from that pain, so if I see someone else is pain who is also a part of me, so it means, my …

Pain is not the cause of our suffering.

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Uptil now, we have been thinking that we suffer becuase we have pain in life and we all want to be free from sufferings…we dont want pain, but pain is inevitable and it is always there. The process of birth itself brings so much of pain for the mother and child both. Every moment, we going through one or more …

At any moment, you can take a decision to be your trueself.

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A mother was telling her child, dont do this, what would uncle think of you. Its a very common sight and we are not surprised by looking at such things but when i sit and contemplate on this, I get worried because his mother was laying a foundation of a personality which would depend on others approval all the time. …