I met a 62 years old person who is still stuck in his 20 years old grudge with his wife. because of that he has pushed his children also away from him. When I sat next to him, all he had to talk about his failed relationship. He did not bother to ask what is happening in everyone else’s life. …
It is by the pain we endure we become a jewel to be worn.
Few days back a girl called up and said that she can guide all her friends but from inside she feels very bad because of her turbulent life. She has parental problems and many other problems. I asked her that why do you think you are going through problems. She was looking for an answer. Her first answer came was …
Accept yourself for what you are. Respect others for what they are.
We all have something which we do not like inside us. We are not comfortable 100% with who we are. We live in denial of that part. We want to hide that part from everyone else. If we are not happy with someone with whom we have to live 24/7 we can never be happy. How can we. For that …
What you are seeking in someone else is already inside you.
I was taking a workshop for few ladies. I asked the participants about each other’s positive qualities and when they had mentioned those qualities, I asked them why is that they picked up this particular quality only. When they looked deeper, they realised they already had those qualities. One girl said for other that she is very hard working. I …
When your desire to give will be more than the desire to take, life will always be in surplus.
I met a girl who had an estranged relationship with her husband. When she met me she was crying badly and said that she never received her husband’s love. She also said that she never received any love in her life from anyone including her parents. I was listening to her silently. She also said that since child hood she …
Open your eyes with a new smile everyday.
When I woke up, I was feeling sad and then I thought no, this is not how I want my day to be. I want to smile and I want to be happy.So I smiled and then I started feeling better. One smile changed my mood and my decision to be happy made me happy. Every day mostly we wake …
Does not matter how strong is the darkness, one ray of light is enough to disperse it.
There is a dark room and you light a small lamp in one corner. It has the capacity to dispel the darkness of the entire room. After some time, we will also see that all the creatures in that room have started gathering around that. Not only creatures we also by default like to move towards light only. We enter …
Sow the seeds for only what you want to cultivate.
I was having a fight with someone and people with whom we fight are the most important people in our lives. After that I asked myself, do I want this to happen in my relationship? What affect it would have on my relationship? It is not about to make someone feel good. However, do i actually want to hurt the …
Life does not need a purpose. Life itself is a purpose.
I use to wonder many times that we buy a small gadget and we get a manual to use it. We buy a laptop or a computer or even a simplest of machine and we get a manual to use it. However, we do not have manual for life. We take birth, we go through so many ordeals, we call …
Self belief and confidence comes from knowing yourself not from knowing different things.
One 65 year old person after having 40 years of working experience and 30 years of experience at senior level positions said that I still feel lack of confidence. From outside I feel very strong or let’s say I am able to people believe that I am full of confidence and from inside I get nervous. What if they do …
Love heals everything
Yesterday has been one of the most beautiful days in my life. I got a chance to witness the power of love again. I have never doubted the power of love. Infact i believe that love has the power to conquer anything and cross any mountain. Love gives us strength and love can heal anything. Because love is what we …
Everyday you can take a decision to love more and be more kind at least for that day.
I was passing a red light and saw a small child knocking my car window. He was begging for some money or anything which we can share with him. Not to encourage him I tried not to look at him to give him a clear signal that he will not get anything. As he had to collect something so he …











