One gentleman started a company with his brother and after 10 years when the business was on top and expanding, that partner cheated him. He went into depression and that phase lasted for many years. After 7-8 years, his wife decided to help him in coming out of this. She had been trying earlier but this time her determination was …
Keep your relationship above yourself and it would survive. If you would keep yourself above relationship, neither of you would survive.
One gentleman seeked help to save his falling relationship. When we got deeper into his feelings, we found out that he was stuck too much on how could his wife say this/that to him. Everytime she had to come and apologize and that is how she continued. Once she refused to apologize and the situation went out of control. He …
Ask the question, “Can it get better than this?”
A gentleman went through business losses and he had to sell of his house. He started feeling that nothing worse than this could happen to him. So he started saying all the time what more bad can happen to him. 2 years later he got into partnership with someone who cheated him for money and others too. He was about …
You do not need anyone’s approval. You just need self acceptance.
We live in a society and everyone would come and give us his/her opinion of us.It seems like everyone takes it his/her right to judge and criticize. If we start taking anything to heart, we would be in pain always. We will rarely find people who would come and appreciate us. Generally we would find people who would criticise us …
When you learn to smile in pain and love after that, you have found the divine.
One gentleman got into depression after his divorce. His family supported him during that time and he turned very bitter after that. For him, everyone was that and all girls cheat became his reality. Because that had become his reality, he started cheating one girl after another. Whenever we are doing anything wrong, does not matter what justification we create, …
Can we dare to love, to forgive and be happy?
One gentleman was organising a party and was very stressed out. I asked him that why are you stressed out and he said that I do not know why i am stressed out. But you must be happy that you are organising a party. Yes, I am organizing to maintain my status in social circle. My company has just won …
Win over every evil inside you. Do not create a justification for what wrong you are thinking. Get rid of it and fill up yourself with more love.
One gentleman used to steal stationary from the office. Once his fellow member noticed and questioned him. he replied saying here they are not of any use, they were lying in the waste basket, so I picked up. Next time he said he was getting late and tomorrow his son needs it in the school. He was caught 5-6 times …
You are as beautiful as your heart is.
One girl was feeling bad that she is not beautiful enough. She had a dark complexion and again and again she was told by many people that she is not very beautiful. For everything she would say that because she is not beautiful she cannot get a very nice guy. I asked her why do you say so? She said …
You can have everything from the world but it might not satisfy you. What will satisfy you is what you are able to give.
There were two sisters, growing up in same environment and had access to same means. However, having access to same means did not make them similar. One was a very compassionate person, helping others and giving in nature. One was greedy and wanted more for herself. She had a huge almira full of clothes and many things outside that but …
You create a better relationship when you start appreciating more than complaining.
A 54 years old man had an estranged relationship with his mother. When he was 7 years old, she was more busy in her social life and she was not around him. His paternal aunt was around him who did not take care of him well. She often used to hit him and abuse him. He started holding his mother …
The experience in life starts improving when you start lifting people up instead of putting them down.
There was a mulberry tree in the park and kids were throwing stones at it to get fruits. One child had spread a clothe underneath it to collect its fruits. Everyone was in a race to collect maximum fruits and and no one seemed to be interested in the fruits which were falling on the ground. They were hitting tree …
Before you want others to like you, you should like yourself the way you are. If you cannot accept yourself, no one else in the world would.
One girl always fought with others. She could not make friends and neither she could create a happy and loving relationship with her husband. Finally when she was on the verge of losing everything, she seeked help. Here are the few question which we asked, which everyone can ask for self evaluation. 1. Do you like yourself for who you …











