After 7 years of marriage, his wife had turned very bitter. He was sitting and cursing her all the time. When he was done, I asked him what do you want and he said that I want my relationship to work but if she continues like this, how can I put my efforts. Why do you want it to work, if you hate her because my father has told me so or else he would kick me out of business. IS she like this from the beginning and the answer is no. AT that time things were difficult and we all used to be tough on her. For everything she heard taunts. Now, everything is fine, but she has turned bitter. We have shifted to another house, but why is she still so bad. So everyone cursed her and still cursing her and the answer is yes!
In another case, a gentleman was so frustrated in his job. He said that I am unable to find one which would suit me so I have to be here. But, and he kept cursing his office, boss, job and everything associated. Even the salary. So something which is giving you food, taking care of your family is hearing all bad things from you. He was shocked!
He sat on the dining table and as soon as he sat there, he started cursing it. What a bad food has been cooked. He kept cursing his food all the while he was eating. I asked him, why are you eating it and the answer is…blank face. We eat food to nurture this body but a food which has been cursed so many times, how would it nurture. It would harm us more than nurturing us.
My life sucks were his first words when he called up! He kept cursing it and said that he just hates his life. So how would it improve?
I am so fat, I do not like my legs, I do not like my stomach, I look so bad! Common things we would hear from girls! But how would our body react after listening to such words?
So many experiments have been done. When you bless a plant, it flourishes and when you curse it, it dies. There is a tribe in South Africa, when they have to kill a tree, they all start cursing instead of cutting it and in few days the tree dies. Our words and intentions are so powerful and have such a huge impact. If you want something to improve and be better for you, bless it.
Bless your home, bless your car, bless your relationship, bless your life, bless your work place, bless the food you eat and see the change in your life. In above cases, the relationship improved, the gentleman got promotion, the gentleman who was in habit of cursing food, his health improved.
So be love and fill up everything with love in life.
