One muslim family does not want their son to get married to a Hindu girl and same way the hindu family does not want their daughter to a muslim boy. Anyway they both finally get married, the girl changes her religion and her family stops talking to her. Though all of them use to love her a lot. The boys family accepts her but creates so many gaps that finally both are seperated. The two need to be blamed but if we look at external things are such things appropriate? What is more important, being human or being hindu or muslim? I always have a hard time in my family as they are more rigid. For everything my father would first ask, what is his/her caste? My mom is too religious. May be these things made me so much against such things and forced me to have a different thought pattern. I dont understand what is more important love or a religion? What does a religion teach? Ofcourse, the concept of one God, every religion teaches same and we all know these things, still then why do we fight..if you ask someone..there is no answer, just because people have different customs? And why were customs designed? I guess to help people to progress in life but same things are pulling back people, if thats the case, then these things are becoming redundant. Think over, what is more important, something which was designed for us to help us but have lost meaning or the human beings itself. We are ready to kill on the name of religion and in truth we all are born humans and being humans is the biggest Dharam which we need to follow however, the irony is that we have become something but forgotten to be human. Being a human gives us the bigegst advantage thatw e have choice of free will everywhere and the biggest Dharam is to love, to love oourselves, everyone around and everything including animals, creatures etc….but what do we do…we dont even love other human beings…