We all like talking about others. We feel its justified and may be and may be not. WE know we shall not talk bad about others, still we do, so what are the common things we can hear..I am not talking bad about someone else, I am just talking about someone. Now, if the person is bad, this is the way it is. We are just talking, we are not bitching. I am taking out my frustration. I need to share my pain (Fair enough but how many times). Or may be few things like that we have heard. We know we are not gaining anything out of such conversation. But what we do not know is, we are losing many things. How? Let’s understand that.
First thing we all are energy beings. Energy travels with our thoughts. So where ever is our focus, our energy starts reaching there. We also absorb energy from whatever we are focusing upon. So if we are focusing upon the bad quality of someone, we are actually absorbing that energy, we are invoking that in us and we are creating that in us.
So what shall we do?
I understand, some people really irritate us and but then there are also people who really do good for us. Life comes in a package of good and bad. We learn good from bad. If there is a bad one around, we know the good one in comparison with the bad one. It is our choice what we want to focus upon. It is also possible that, if we really focus upon everyone’s good, we start absorbing all the good. Consciously or subconsciously, we all know what is right and what is wrong. But we still do such things as are are unable to control the negativity which wants to enter inside us. If we can really express some will power and take over that urge of being managed by negativity and conquer over that, we actually can become something different. Now, I actually understand the meaning of what Gita says. it says you shall talk about divine and his things. So that we can start absorbing divine. So that we can invoke that inside us. So that we can be who we truly are. So that we can conquer the demons inside us.
