One painter put a painting in the middle of a market and wrote that please put a red mark on the mistake and next day when he went back to collect the painting, he saw only red marks and there was no painting visible. He was very depressed as he felt he made the worst painting. But his friend asked him to make another one and again put it and this time they wrote please make the corrections along. next day the painting was pristine. Why, because we dont know how to correct that. Parents criticise kids so that they dont repeat mistakes, learn and improve. Teachers do for same reason. When we criticise someone, why do we do that? Is it to help the person or just to accuse, is it we are getting pleasure out of that. We have a super bl oaten up ego and we need a constant nourishment for that. Is it that we are driving that nourishment by putting down others? If thats the case then think what are you getting out of that nd what would the other person get? If its all negativity, do you think its fair to the other person and good for you too..if no one is gaining because ego should not gain…whenever you are saying something to someone, always be clear about your motive…if its a negative motive dont indulge, if its a positive motive, then explain along, what he should be doing and how he can improve.
