One lady was crying badly that she loves her family but she always ends up fighting with her husband and shouting at her son. She wanted to give them peace and happiness but was unable to and this was depressing her further. She started infusing same depression in her son and husband too. She started telling them always that life is very bad, nothing good could happen to them etc and they also started developing a very strong negativity towards life and others. The whole environment was very depressing and they were fighting with everyone around too! Because of all this, they were unable to focus on business and the work she had. She was running a small Feng shui shop but every omen failed to support her. They were waiting for some miracle to happen so that the entire family could come out of this. Every thing has to start from home not from outside. During my one hour discussion with her, she spoke very negative about herself many times. She was cursing herself and her life all the time. She cursed getting married and cursed having a child whom she could not support. It was like a vicious circle! More she would curse, more things would go bad. More bad they were, more she would curse. I asked her, do you like you life, no! Do you love yourself? No! Then how can you love someone else. You can give what you have and if you have criticism for yourself and no love for yourself, how can you give to others? She understood the point. So what do I have to do for this?
Wake up every day and tell nice things to yourself. Treat yourself with love and treat everyone else with love. If you do not treat yourself with love, you cannot treat other also with love. So be kind, be loving.
