When she was 2 years old, her brother as born and she always heard things which made her feel like she was a burden on her family. Boys are worth, they can carry the family legacy, So many times for food also she was the less preferred. Out of the chocolates, she could choose only after her brother had chosen. She started hating her brother, herself, her life and any body who would discriminate. More you hate, more you create that. She had put on weight and everyone started taunting her for that too. (sometimes our fears and insecurities make us pile weight). This further added on to her problems. Now, another fear started looming over her head that no boy would love her. She felt that no one loved her and she did not love herself back and she did not give love to anyone else.
When she grew up, she met a boy in her class who showed her, her own good qualities. He helped her in realizing that her beauty had nothing to do with her weight. He also gave her lots of love which made her like herself better and then eventually understand herself from a different perspective.
She started giving love to herself. Instead of thinking she lacked something, she liked herself for her qualities and she found her own beauty too.
She started feeling love for that boy too.
This boy made her fall in love with small small things of life and people around her.
She also started seeing world as a better place. She started realizing unconditionally many things are supporting her like trees, birds etc. She started falling in love with everything around her.
One day, a small child came and hugged her on road. HE said that you are so beautiful. At that time she realized that when she started giving love, she has started receiving love from everyone and everything around.
Whole life she kept waiting for people to come and love her but it had to be other way around. If we start giving love, everything starts loving us back. In that, we need to first love ourselves. Without that we cannot love anyone or anything else.
So tell yourself
I am good
I love myself
I am worthy
I am awesome
I will do miracles
I am a miracle of God
God is with me
Everything loves me
Everyone loves me
