We went for a holiday and it was a long drive. It’s tiring and exhausted with two little girls with all their biological needs and food needs while we are traveling. There was a time when I had started feeling fear of traveling because of all this. I wondered I would be furthermore exhausted in taking care of them if we travel rather than enjoying my trip. But then I thought. Every trip is like a mini part of life. It always has some pain, some challenges, some problems, some fun. We need to accept it all. We do not even need to change the perspective. We just need to accept that this is how life is and will be. If we do the right things, things improve eventually.
However, often, we forget to look at the improvements. We just keep looking at the problems and the problems in the past and the pain areas. Yes, these pain areas also have their own left over effects. But then the good things also have their own affects.
Everything is there and everything will be there. We need to look around and accept, or we can keep complaining. We can enjoy the time here, or we can cry about the things. Life will be beautiful if we learn to accept that it will have some pain instead of hoping that there will be no pain. Because there will be pain. And pain is good. It keeps us on track. It keeps us going. Because it also gives a motive to come out of that pain and reach to a place of comfort. If it would have only been a non pain area we would just stop moving.
Accept your life and accept all of it.
