One gentleman called up as his wife is always angry during this Lockdown. She is doing chores but she is always angry.
So here goes the conversation:
How are you?
I am OK. But I am angry.
Why are you angry?
Because no one is helping me. I am doing so much.
What help are you expecting?
She thought for a while and she said I do not know. She just said I know one thing I am doing so much.
But we all are doing.
Look at my friend, she has a 24 hours maid.
It’s her life. If you compare, let’s compare other things also. How is her husband?
Her tone lowered and she said that her husband never cares for her.
How is her son?
He never bothers about his mother. And He misbehaves.
How are your children?
They are always hugging me.
And?
I have a mother in law who is always sitting on my head.
But she must be doing something. Yes but she just plays with my kids.
And that is saving them from TV all day. Aren’t they learning something?
She was better and peaceful.
But the next question is how should I handle my anger?
Why makes you angry?
I feel I am doing so much.
Do you believe in God?
Yes, and I feel he is doing everything and taking care of me.
Then why are you angry?
Yes, this was the moment of self-realization.
If he is doing everything, you are just a channel for everything, then believe in that. Serve with love. Continue serving with love. If you will think, you are being punished and you are doing everything, you will get angry. But if you will think, that he is taking care of you and you have a feeling of surrender then you will be able to serve with love. It will take some practice.
After 3 days, she was much better and peaceful
Yes, we all need to remember this thing. We need to maintain our peace and love. We can do that with the feeling of love and surrender. Keep serving with love.
