She could never believe she was amazing. She was married to a man, who told her how bad she looked and all the faults in her. She believed him always. Because she trusted him. Whenever she asked him not to do that, he always had one reply, look at my intentions, I am helping you improve. I want to help you in discovering yourself in a better way. I want you to become better. He never realized this was breaking her confidence. She had started staying stressed out and lost confidence even in the smallest of the things. Then she heard things further like you can’t even do this. She was hearing lots of criticism and she started criticizing herself always.
Now, hear her story which she had forgotten in 10 years of married life. She was an intelligent student in the school, not the topper but intelligent. She always helped other children in studying. She was loved by many. She was always there in many activities in school. She was a known face in the school. In her office also, she always won many awards. She wondered if she had so many problems how come all of this was possible.
So they got divorced and at that time, she felt shattered. She wondered she was the reason as she could not improve herself as per her husband’s expectations.
One day, she decided to stop criticizing herself. But then that thought process had to be replaced with something better. She wrote down all her achievements and how she felt she was before getting married. She realized she was a beautiful wonderful amazing human being. More and more she was realizing, more and more she was grateful for the divorce. She had a good job and soon she got promotion. A happy heart creates better vibes and a better environment. She again started receiving many awards. She wondered if this woman got buried under so much criticism and self-criticism. She was always helpful to anyone who came to her. She could feel the respect and love for herself. But for that, she had to first start giving that to herself.
Does not matter what others say to you, always believe in what you want to believe. What is most important is, what you tell to yourself.
Tell yourself, you are an amazing, loving, beautiful person. Create a happy one!
