They were fighting for a few months. She was tired and did not feel peaceful. She wanted things to become peaceful. I asked her if she wanted to resolve fight with her husband and she said that I want things to resolve. I asked her if you are ready to let go off the thing and she was not. She accepted that she was not ready for things to solve. She wanted things to be peaceful but she was not ready for anything. maybe if he could put effort. And if he had to put effort every time then? One day he would get tired! Was he doing that every time? Every time he was making a decision that he wanted things to heal and he was doing everything he could and things were getting solved. But this time, he was not. So it was her turn and she realized she was not ready.
Then she started thinking, what was important to her? Was he important to her or her ego? Was living with him important to her or staying in her thoughts and suffering? What if they were not together? What if she had a bad husband? What if he was physically abusive or verbally abusive or a forceful man? What if she was under the fear all the time? She realized he was a good man and she really wanted to be with him. And if she wanted to be with him then she had to work upon that.
Now, she had taken a decision after a few months to solve everything. She loved him and he loved her too. But now, she was ready to solve things and they started solving. She stopped arguing, she stopped taunting, She went upto him and asked to solve and hugged him. He loved her too much not to solve.
Do not let your loved ones go. Do not let love go from your life. Let love prevails. Take a decision to solve everything and things will start solving. Things heal when we decide. They do not heal until we do not decide. take a decision to heal everything. Love heals everything.
