Some people have more challenges than others. So they get tired and sometimes, they feel, when would it end. And still when they face problems, they will like breaking down, they feel like never to pick up pieces again and even if they are, they are worried, what if they have not been able to put together in a good shape, what would others think of them.
Met a gentleman, who has been doing a lot for everyone. When his mother was dying of cancer, he took did all what was possible and nursed her for 7 years. He also had to manage business and look at the finances. His father had died at the age of 17, leaving behind his family as his responsibility. HE started business, supported his younger brother and sister, took care of mother and when they were married and happy in their own lives, he thought he could marry then. But when he married, it did not work out. He had to go through lots of legal hassles to close that case. After all these things he wondered what would others think of him or his family. His heart was sinking wondering that who would like to be with him or with the children in his family.
Sometimes, when I see so much pain, I feel like crying that some people, because they can tolerate more, God choose them to have more pain. May be to give better example to others or may be they could handle more or may be they chose it themselves to accelerate the Karmic journey but yes, they have.
To all such people, who have endured pain, who have fought their battles bravely, who have not given up on life, want to say, do not worry what others may think of you, do not worry if someone will understand your journey, do not worry, if you are alone, do not judge yourself from others perspective. Look at how brave you have been. Look at how sincere you have. Look at all the efforts you have put in. Look at how strong you have become. Love yourself, appreciate yourself. You are the strongest person, you would know.
